The title is actually from a book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”, the book talks about men and women in different aspects of life. I am just listing few interesting ideology among men.
- Color PINK : This is indeed an interesting topic, I have seen enough articles and TV serials which portrays wearing a pink color shirt/t-shirt is considered to be homosexual. If it was color for homosexuality then it should be global code right? I mean if white stands for peace,black stands for mourning, then pink should be made global homosexual color for both the sexes. Strangely, if you just Google about the topic, most of the people feel(including girls) that wearing pink is manly! to put it in their words “Real men wear PINK”. If that is so then why the controversy? Just cause almost 99.99% of the girl love “PINK”. I am just guessing “a girlfriend” said to “her boyfriend” don’t wear pink it is girly and the torch of wisdom was passed on
- Shopping: Ok, when was the last time you heard a guy say “Dude, are you free on Sunday? can we go shopping for the whole day?” or a guy say “I just love shopping”. Or even you have heard a guy say it, I am sure a thought flashed in your mind “he is so girly!”. For guys, shopping just counts for an hour or two and it is just accompanied with the dialogue “I hate shopping!!”. Agreed, you don’t want to stand in the crowd, but aren’t we the one paying for it and getting a good product is fine right? Again which population loves shopping? I’ll leave the answer to you
- CRYing: Men aren’t supposed to cry of course I might just be exaggerating but this is a common belief/saying. If you see a boy crying, you definitely hear his mother say “Men don’t cry!”. It is just unfair, men have same emotional factors/elements as women!
I strongly believe that men are capable of not thinking! I am not saying we are dumb or idiot but thing is that we tend to use our minds less for our own thoughts! You can say, men’s character is similar to a mirror. Men reflect thoughts and wishes of others most of the time. Be it a men or boy eventually, their thoughts are the thoughts of their girl friend or their moms. I don’t say it is bad but thats how men are. Men many a times likes to keep things simple, be it their wishes, their aims, their thoughts. If you take away a very strong belief in a man, he finds difficult to cope up unlike a women who adapt and cope up with changes quickly, don’t agree with me? how about a girl living in husband’s place after marriage and adjusting quickly?! Many say men are just open book, agreed, just cause the book is open doesn’t mean you have to leave the book unread. People regard women as more sacrificial and adjusting than men, totally true. But it is men who carry their thoughts, knowingly or unknowingly men carry more thoughts, thoughts which are not about him but about people who he loves. I would really like to see/conduct a survey about “Ten things men like/love in their life” and I am sure more than half the things in the list are what his loved one’s love!